You come home from a long day and you open the door to the house. The stress has built up all day and you want to come home to relax, right? You step inside and your eyes rocket to the boxer shorts in the middle of the living room. Dirty, stinky, and right in the middle of the frickin floor!
Why right in the middle of the floor? Where are the pants that were over top? Did he leave them there to erk me when I get home? The simple question of how they were even dropped right there is a tickler. You feel disrespected right?
You pick up the boxers with anger chucking them into the laundry. Or better yet you put them right in front of the bathroom door which you know he will step over as soon as he gets home from work. Maybe this will be smart, you say to yourself, he will get the message another part of your brain says.
Well understanding the male brain is a sought after skill for many ladies. Imagine the male brain going a mile a minute struggling to keep one thought in this head. Jumping between the thoughts of food, sex, and a zillion work related tasks. Do you really think that those boxer shorts are in the middle of the floor to directly piss you off?
Coming to the realization that the male mind is too busy jumping between thoughts to do a simple task, and not because he is trying to be vindictive, is like getting hit by lightening. Stroked with this realization will make your relationship so much lighter. Instead of stewing over the fact that he did this on purpose you can simply through those boxers into the laundry.
Step back and look at the situation.
Don’t you agree that limiting the time you antagonize over how those boxers in the middle of the floor as a direct stab in the gutmis a waste of time. That fight you would have had when he arrived home can be mitigated and just pushed to the side because you made a simple decision to step back and look at the situation. When stepping back you realized that not only is it easier for you to pick up the boxers, but it creates a lot less stress in your own conscious.
When he gets home instead of having negative thoughts towards him you can jump on him and fuck. After eating that romantic dinner you so carefully prepared make sure to remember that he has probably picked up a few of your thongs off the living room floor from time to time.