I always just told myself that I was like a guy and did not want to be intimate after being intimate. Sex, eat, and sleep no cuddling. I never wanted to be too needy and never wanted to get my emotions involved in fucking. The last thing I wanted was the guy to think I was a typical girl. Add this in with being hit around a few times—I said fuck cuddling.
Don’t you think it is sad that we live in a society that makes us want to not be normal? Not associate themselves from stereotypical girl traits?
When I was growing up and still a fact now. I get along with boys better. They seem to like me more. As I have grown up I have realized that girls are cool too. But I still have trouble with trying to make a friendship work. I am not used to that emotional stuff that girls chat about or feel. I still gravitate towards guys because they have less drama. Ironically, gravitating towards hanging out with guys has created more drama in my life as those stupid emotions that others feel like jealously or the overwhelming feeling to pull someones hair out. I have come to really appreciate my girlfriends, but that is another story.
But back to cuddling and sex.
After having sex guys always assumed I would stay the night, but I would just go home. This was not before a cuddling nightmare of me trying to put on my clothing and busting my ass to leave. The swinging of the arm over my body and the asshole who wants to share my pillow— arg that is mine dude.
In the movies where the girl snuggles and the man waits till she falls asleep to move is me.
My current boyfriend likes to cuddle. The first few nights together I wished I could video tape it. funniest thing ever. We would be in bed ready to sleep and he would put his arm around me. I would move away and he would ask me to come closer. I finally would realize that I couldn’t win so I gave up. I let him put his arm around me, move close, and snuggle. As soon as he fell asleep I would move his arm off of me and move away. Not two seconds later would he put his arm around me again and pull me back to spoon. O and he was still asleep.
This is what I should of videotaped because this happened for hours. I really thought that sooner or later he would give up and I would be free of cuddles. Imagine this happening for hours, watching it on a live webcam, and laughing your ass off. How was I to escape this terrible affection?!!?
I should of realized that this was not a marriage commitment. If his penis could be inside me than I could let his arm be on the outside of me showing me he cared. This is not clingy I now understand it is affection and a way to show that he cares.
So I learnt to cuddle. Now I love it. I love it when I am cold, I love it when I fall asleep, and I love how it makes me feel. Call me a sap, clingy, whatever you like. My cheeks still go red when I admit I like to cuddle..
So my question, do you like to cuddle? Does the thought of cuddling make you shudder? Do you fit in his cuddle groove? Do you do opposite spooning—cuddling his bum? Beware of the possibility of being farted on if you do this one. gross…